Love your haters.

Hey guys!

I'm back. I'm trying my best to blog every week from now.

So yeah!

We're gonna talk about haters today. Why? Because life is not complete without haters.

Look. If you're pretty, beautiful, kind or you're just being yourself, there will always be haters. Let me be honest, I ever hate one of my friends, one gang. Well, we're humans. 

But then, I started to live MY OWN LIFE. Get it? 

Live your own life is like be happy with what god gave. With what you have. With being who you really are. That is real life. But then, haters came into life. Why? Because they're jealous. They hate it when we're enjoying a life that they wished to be in. 

Let me tell you guys a story. I have so many haters. HA HA HA. YES.

But I asked one of my teachers, How to handle the haters in life, I asked.

And she said just ignore them. If you can't beat them, Join them. 

I was like okay, that's easy. I tried that out but it didn't worked. 

So I go on youtube and watched a video about 'How to handle the haters'

I watched a video and she said deal with it. Agree with it. Pity them for having a pathetic life. Hahaha funny huh?

For me, it is funny. HILARIOUS.

Okay, I have a girl who hated me so much till today. As you guys know, We have Hari Raya in Malaysia which is a celebration for the muslims in Malaysia. It is a celebration that is celebrated by the muslims and more to say a celebration that consists of forgiving and forgetting the past. So I apologise to her during Hari Raya and a week after, we came back to school. For a few days, we are friends. We're okay. But then maybe she met some of her friends, she hated me once again. I hated her too for being too annoying and too judgemental.And now I realized. What did I get for hating them too? Im exactly like them. 

And now, I'm trying to ignore them. Let them mock, let them talk, let them be. That's their life and they're happy with what they are doing. Because we noticed what they do. But when you ignored, they'll feel left out and they will stop.

And maybe they posted status about you on the social media. Well, that's normal. 

I got that alot. I'm okay. Like it. That kills.

And yeah, if she had a gang and they all hated you for no reason, let them be.

Because god knows.

For me, there is no use fighting fire with fire. So, join them.

My haters comes in a group. I don't mind that they insult me or anything. 

Because I have my own friends. 

Love your haters, they need your attention, your love.

Pity them for having a pathetic life.

And just ignore them.

THAT'S IT. 

WILL UPDATE SOON!

XX, NIA.

My mom.

My mom.

she is my one and only mom.

She's turning 46 this 25th of August.

I have an interesting story to tell you guys.

Okay so few hours ago, my mom called me and she asked me to give her a massage.

I went into her room and gave her a massage for about half an hour. 

While I was massaging her back, I was wondering what my life would be without her. 

And while I was rubbing her feet, I stop and stare for a while. 

Those feet help her to walk and do all the chores, help her to go to work and help her to do anything. What malay usually say ' Syurga di bawah telapak kaki ibu' 

I got it in my mind when I was giving her a massage. I'm there staring at her bare feet and start to appreciate every single thing that she did to us. She help us and give us the endless love. Support us. And she did everything.

My life would be so incomplete without her. She is my queen.

She helped me in every single situation. She's our chef, She's a wife to my dad, she's our beautiful mom, she's our fashion designer, she's our boss and the most important thing is she's the most important person to our family.

To all of you out there, Do love your mom. She's the most important person in your life. No matter what. 

Love them and take good care of them while they are still alive. And if they are not there with you guys, call them. They are gonna be so happy.

And If they don't live in this world anymore, just keep them in your heart. They will always be in your heart, forever and always.

They love you and you should love them more.

And to my mom,

If you're reading this, I just wanna tell you that I LOVE YOU and thank you for everything. May Allah bless you always. 

I don't know what my life would be without you by my side.

You are my queen and I will forever be your princess.

Love you ma. 

lots of love,

Nia. xx

p/s:  sorry for being a bad blogger. I just have no time to update my blog. Will post more soon. Stay tuned! 

Haters gonna hate. Lovers gonna love and Liars gonna lie. :)

Hello readers! I'm back after 4 months haha. Okay from now on, I am not gonna talk about my business life anymore but I'm going to talk about my LIFE.

My life is pretty great. Fun adventures, Happy family, Great friends and everything. My life is complete :)
But there will always be a person who will hate you. hate me. I myself don't even know what I did to them. All they wanted to do was just make me mad, sad and feel useless.
But you know what, my haters, are richer than I am, more beautiful, more clever than me. I don't know why they hate me tho. I don't usually talk to them. But it's like they just don't like me. 
Just wanna tell the readers out there, people who hates you are just jealous.
Because you have a greater life than them. I am not rich, i;m not that clever and im not beautiful. Why do they hate me? Well I guess, because I'm being too friendly? Well, I guess it's not wrong to be friendly am I right?  They can be friendly too. No one will stop them. But why are they not doing it but hating me instead. 
I've been through everything. They mocked me, hated me, make people hate me and so on. Yeah it hurts, but you just have to move on. Just let them be. I said that. yeap. Actually it's not easy to do but it's easy to say. I used to read quotes on the internet, about moving on and ignore the haters. And i'm like, it's easy to say but it's really hard to do. Yeap it its. But I push myself through it. I am here just to help you guys out there.
Think about it. What do you get when they did that? Nothing am I right. And of course you're afraid to lose your friends, best friends. Of course we do. I am too. But you know, if you're the angel, they will never leave you. That is what true friends are. Maybe some of you are just too lonely, well, you can still survive. Find friends. When your friends leaves you just smile and walk away. Let them go. If they really are your friends, they will come back. They will.
It's not easy to move on am I right?  But you just have to try. Haters out there are just better than you. Compare yourself to them. Let them be. Smile and walk away, that will hurt them :) Trust me.Good thing I have my friends that never walk away from me after knowing all of the lies they told my friends. I am good now. There are still hating me but they're acting nice infront of my friends. Huh Fake huh? That's life basically.
Okay dear readers, Just wanna tell you guys to stay strong, be yourself and move. What's yours will always be yours. No worries. Now look into the mirror smile at yourself and get the vibe of moving on. I know you guys can do it. 
Stay strong loves!
You are beautiful :)
With lots of love,
Nia. <3

Happy New Year!

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015.

LET'S PRAY TO GOD THAT 2015 WILL BE A BETTER YEAR FOR US. I REALLY HOPE YOU GUYS HAVE AN AMAZING NEW YEAR. XX,NIA. 

#BEYOURSELF